“The Whole is better than the sum of its parts.”
~ Kurt Koffka
If You Want Harmony and Date Night Again, Then This is For You
Forging a True Partnership
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The Core Essence
The bottom line of what I do for couples is help them have a healthy relationship. I give them the blueprint of how to create a true partnership ~ working together as a team to create your desired home-life ~ while you each stay true to who you are in your soul. If you’re not able to be authentic with your soul essence, you’ll die a slow soul death.
My Core Values / Beliefs are:
- TEAMwork, authenticity, and being a forever-student
- Compassion, Understanding, Deep Listening
- Real, True, Unconditional LOVE!
These aren’t things I merely advocate and teach as a coach. They make up the essence of who I am as a person. I’m not saying I do it 100% perfectly all of the time, because I recognize my humanness. We are all works in progress. However, I’ve learned through my experiences that each person needs to make an earnest attempt to do these in order to have a happy, healthy, mutually-loving relationship.
Testimonials
“We came to Judy because we are dealing with a high-conflict bio mom who emails constantly with various accusations from the mundane to the extreme. The conflict that exists between my husband and his ex was poisoning our time, and we were fighting about her a lot; because with her, it’s always something. We needed help setting boundaries and good habits early on.
Judy did an incredible job helping us completely turn things around — my husband’s communication with his ex is more positive. We no longer let her antics take over, and we are able to brush it off and focus on our family. It’s make a world of difference. And it was incredible to have someone who understands the stepfamily experience — I’m absolutely certain we would not have gotten the same results if we hadn’t been working with someone who has been there. Thank you!”
“Morning, Judy. It was a really nice night. He sent me a nice text during the day saying how much he appreciated me. We had dinner. Everything was calm. We didn’t discuss anything serious. I got 8 hrs of sleep which I can’t remember the last time this happened. Thank u.”
“I was very satisfied with our coaching, and found Judy to be reliable. She brought things that I was doing to my attention that I was not aware of.
My challenge was accepting that my girlfriend was needing to be part of my parental life. This helped me to see we have to be a team. As Judy mentioned, any pre-existing issues that are not solved may interrupt the program as they are dealing with parenting stuff.
It really did help me to see things I was not aware, and gave me ideas on how to deal with things. For me, it was helpful in that regard, and Judy was very helpful when we needed more one on one counseling. It’s highly likely I’ll hire Judy again.“
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Who is Judy?
Judy Graybill is a Relationship Healer and Certified Stepfamily Coach who specializes in moderate-to-high-conflict relationships. Coaching for nearly 15 years, she’s gifted at identifying where couples get stuck. She helps them develop the mindset and emotional coherence to establish long-term harmony, deeper intimacy, and a stronger partnership.
Her formal degrees are in Sociology and Psychology, complementing her certification as a Stepfamily Coach, personal experience, and subsequent healing journey.
As a child of divorce, Judy has first-hand knowledge of dysfunctional family patterns. They followed her into adulthood and 4 “failed relationships”, culminating in a painful but amicable ending to her high-conflict stepfamily experience. Feeling heartbroken, confused, and resentful, Judy set out to be happy and whole again. Through a Personal & Spiritual Journey, Judy managed to heal her complex trauma without traditional therapy. That ignited her passion to help others through similar experiences.
In addition to coaching, Judy speaks, writes, and facilitates in-person workshops. And, she’s a member of the Mind Well Collective.