You, Too, Can Have Harmony Again!

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My fellow Love-Seeker:

It’s my hope that you’ll see a little of yourself in the people here. There’s a similar emotional range that my clients share when they come to me, such as frustration, resentment, confusion, fear, and hurt feelings.

They also share the same desires: love, appreciation, recognition, enjoyment, to be understood, a peaceful environment, and the list goes on.

YOU DESERVE all these things, and it would be my great pleasure to assist you in whatever relationship challenge has brought you here.

Judy

I was very satisfied with our coaching, and found Judy to be reliable. She brought things that I was doing to my attention that I was not aware of. My challenge was accepting that my girlfriend was needing to be part of my parental life. This helped me to see we have to be a team. As Judy mentioned, any pre-existing issues that are not solved may interrupt the program as they are dealing with parenting stuff. It really did help me to see things I was not aware, and gave me ideas on how to deal with things. For me, it was helpful in that regard, and Judy was very helpful when we needed more one on one counseling. It’s highly likely I’ll hire Judy again.

Shaun

Dad / Boyfriend, Los Angeles, CA

I wish I could talk to Judy all the time. She is someone you could see as a friend in your life… just having a person to help us deal with step-family specific issues without going off track to making it personal, even though it really is. Her coaching is high quality, useful, and good value for the money.

My situation has changed by changing my perspective and helping my relationship with my husband be stronger. I’ll most likely hire Judy again, and be definitely recommending her to others.

Mom / Step-mom / Wife / so much more

PA, USA

Are you a loving father who found your soulmate in a second marriage, who sometimes feels imprisoned by the same court system who divorced you from the demon who managed the hell of your first marriage? Do you wish you had a guide and a partner to help you cope with communication, feelings, and pressures of parenthood, and being a good partner to your wonderful wife? Then turn to Judy Graybill who gave me and helped me develop coping skills to help manage my own emotions in the midst of the manipulative communications [from my ex-wife] in order to appropriately compartmentalize my worst mistake I ever made [i.e. first marriage]. Judy’s active listening and engagement directly influenced how me and my wife work together towards the good life (in the midst of a pandemic) and my wife being the best bonus mom ever to my son. Judy’s availability and punctuality helped us establish the foundation and fundamentals toward a stable and happy marriage, that marginalizes anything that tries to bring us down, and highlight all that helps us fly. If you want what I have, in your life, hire Judy Graybill.

Joshua

40, DC

Judy was extremely helpful and had some suggestions that I had not done before. She encouraged me to take action and also take a step back in the same sense. Confirmed some things I have been dealing with, and suggestions on how to accomplish what I want to, or at least try to do! I would suggest anyone and everyone to speak with Judy. You will not regret it.

Mandy P

married, TX

I needed help with becoming a stepfather. Judy graciously assisted in the transition of that process for me. She is very insightful when it comes to the situation I was in and the step parenting department. Bringing up points and topics I did not even realize I would have to think about. Very glad to of used her services.

Andrew B

Sales Director, Boston, MA

Judy provided very insightful counseling, offering both feedback and specific techniques. She was always professional, compassionate, and focused on the welfare of our family.

Mary Rothgeb

Mom, Grant Proposal Writing for Nonprofits; Bay Area, CA

Judy is an excellent resource for those of us that are in blended families. She is a thoughtful and intelligent individual who communicates real-world solutions to the everyday problems that we experience. Judy is honest and straightforward, and provides down-to-earth advice and not theoretical solutions. I would definitely recommend Judy’s services.

Thomas Russo, Jr

Stepdad / Husband, New Jersey

Sometimes I get very sad and frustrated about my grown stepdaughter’s refusal to relate to me, and I start to feel like a victim. Judy helped me to feel empowered, and to recognize that my choice to disengage is a powerful choice, which actually reflects my caring, both for her and for my husband. Now my focus is on learning what I am supposed to learn from the situation, and I feel much more in control.

Joan Sarin

Mom / Stepmom, Training Consultant, North Central Parent Group; Phoenix, AZ

If you’re looking for a relationship coach or you’re already considering working with Judy, then I’d seriously urge you to make the jump. Whether you feel like you’re in the perfect relationship or that you’re struggling, I have absolutely no doubt that Judy will provide massive value. She has an uncanny ability to provide insight and perspective that you’ve probably never experienced. Most importantly though, she knows that you’re the only person who truly knows about your situation, and uses powerful questions to draw out and use your own, innate knowledge.

Daniel McKenna

Peak Performance Life Coach, Perth, Australia

I highly recommend Judy Graybill and her company to anyone who is blending a family. Even before a couple is married, it is important that everyone – parents, step-parents, children, and step-children – get along and understand one another. Sometimes, the hardest children are “grown up” step-children. They need counseling as well. Many times, traditional marriage counseling doesn’t address the needs of a step-family, and this is where Judy can be most helpful. She is passionate about helping stepfamilies, and she has a genuine concern for the needs of each person in the stepfamily puzzle of life.

Lynn Threlkeld

Mom / Stepmom, Winter Springs, FL

Judy Graybill has a big heart to help step parents deal with the unique challenges of their family dynamics. Her personal story is very compelling. If you are a step parent, or know a friend or family member who is, I strongly encourage you to take advantage of Judy’s complimentary coaching session. She will give you insights to help you that you probably have not thought of yourself. As one of my coaching clients, I have come to know Judy and her strong passion to help step parents. She is strongly committed to reaching out to people.

Ron Hori

Sales Coach, San Jose, CA

Judy is one of the few people I trust with personal things I am going through in life. She has always been there to give me advice, and she is great at what she does. She helped me down the path on my new journey as a potential step-father. This is all new for me, and she made me think of things I was not aware of at the time. I don’t open up much to most people, and being a potential step father is new to me. Judy exceeded my expectations, and I recommend her to any current or future step parent.

Jason

Fiance' / Step-father, Phoenix, AZ

We came to Judy because we are dealing with a high-conflict bio mom who emails constantly with various accusations from the mundane to the extreme. The conflict that exists between my husband and his ex was poisoning our time, and we were fighting about her a lot; because with her, it’s always something. We needed help setting boundaries and good habits early on. Judy did an incredible job helping us completely turn things around – my husband’s communication with his ex is more positive. We no longer let her antics take over, and we are able to brush it off and focus on our family. It’s made a world of difference. And it was incredible to have someone who understands the stepfamily experience – I’m absolutely certain we would not have gotten the same results if we hadn’t been working with someone who has been there. Thank you!

Bonus Mom

DC

I had an unprecedented professional provider in Judy. She is an excellent resource in many areas of family and blended families. Judy is one of the smartest and most purposeful people I know.

She commits to an undertaking, she will solve your challenges quickly and correctly.

Judy is a polished professional who has my highest considerations. It is a rare privilege to work with a person of such caliber. Her compassion and empathy make her a superb addition to any visionary team, at any level.

If you ask for her professional assistance, expect her to overcome your highest expectations.

Mel Rappleyea

SPHR, CSP, Head of Human Resources, (30k connections, 45k followers), Orlando, FL

I was trying to understand the role of a stepparent better. I didn’t know where I fit in, and felt alone. It was valuable to have somebody to talk to who understood what I was going through. Judy understood me extremely well, and I am very satisfied. Maybe write a book? Just a thought. In considering what we discussed, I now feel comfortable speaking up. I will not bite my tongue, and talk about any difficulties with my husband when they arise. I will use her again – and recommend her.

Lindsay Laskus

Recently Married childless stepmom; 50/50 custody, Brisbane Queensland, Australia

Judy is such an amazing person. She has a keen insight and a genuine concern for those who reach out to her. In my own situation, brick by brick she helped me tear down walls that I had built, and I was able to re-establish a relationship that at one point seemed hopeless. I will forever be grateful.

Mike F

Step-Dad, Louisiana

[text msg the day after resolving an intense argument]

Morning, Judy. It was a really nice night. He sent me a nice text during the day saying how much he appreciated me. We had dinner. Everything was calm. We didn’t discuss anything serious. I got 8 hrs of sleep which I can’t remember the last time this happened. Thank u.

R.F.

Girlfriend / Stepmom, Calgary, Alberta, CN

I am very pleased by Judy Graybill’s approach to coaching. She gives practical solutions on how to improve communication between the step parent and biological parent, as well as how to solve problems that may arise between the step parent and the step child. I definitely recommend her coaching service to any one who is blending a step family.

Rene

Childless Stepdad / Boyfriend, Tampa, FL

Judy is very dedicated to helping stepfamilies adjust to their new environments. She is very passionate about what she does and truly cares about her clients. So many families go through life transitions, and Judy is there to help. I would highly recommend Judy to help you and your family through those difficult times.

Sharyn Hutchinson

Interior Redesigner / Home Stager, ReDesign Concepts, LLC; Winter Springs, FL

I’ve known Judy for over 10 years, and a key thing that always stood out to me was her deep desire to work with people and to help with the issues that can confront families. When you talk with Judy, it becomes very apparent that she is very well educated in the human psyche. But more importantly than that, through her experiences, she knows how to apply that education with real-world situations and, I believe, achieves great real-world results. Judy is truly gifted with her ability to understand the root of inter-personal relationship issues and to guide those people to an improved future.

Stan Fisher

Engineering Test Specialist, Gilbert, AZ

Judy Graybill has a deep understanding of the serious issues that surround step families. Along with her keen insight into the real needs of the children, she offers some real practical solutions to help families navigate their way. I have been teaching parenting classes for the last 10 years, through Seminole Community College and with my own non-profit corporation. Judy has become an outstanding resource to me. I have relied on her expertise to guide me with my dealings with step families. It is crucial for step parents to begin their journey of building a new family with a knowledgeable counselor. Judy is a gifted communicator and a pleasure to be around. I highly recommend her and the professionalism she brings to each encounter.

Penny O'Connell

Parent Educator, Parent Education Programs, Inc; 407-923-1349

I really want to highlight a stepmom coach and all of her hard work. I had the pleasure of speaking with Judy M Graybill from Sensible Steps, LLC on the phone a couple months ago and her depth and grasp on stepfamilies is amazing. On top of that, every time I read something from her, she completely is right on the mark.

Mary Lynn

Step Mom, Stepmom Central

My Intention / Mission

  • Macro Layer: to help more couples have a loving healthy relationship. I squee with delight when I see couples who are genuinely in love. When that love is also healthy, I feel a warm fuzzy. So to be able to help couples experience that is my biggest bliss. It truly is.
  • Micro Layer: to expand people’s views on how to have a healthy relationship. That includes teaching a new model of a true partnership that is based on synergy, equality, and teamwork.
  • Deeper Layer: to give people tools and strategies for healing their wounds from past relationships so that they are able to open fully into a new experience of a romantic love deeper than they’ve ever felt before. I want as many people as possible to feel the kind of bliss that I know is possible ~ BLISS-CHARGED LOVE.

If this sounds like something you want, and you’re ready to experience love in a whole new way, and think you are ready to take the journey to real love, then click the button below to apply to work with me. I’ll respond within 2-3 business days.

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Who is Judy?

Judy Graybill is a Relationship Healer and Certified Stepfamily Coach who specializes in moderate-to-high-conflict relationships. Coaching for nearly 15 years, she’s gifted at identifying where couples get stuck. She helps them develop the mindset and emotional coherence to establish long-term harmony, deeper intimacy, and a stronger partnership.

Her formal degrees are in Sociology and Psychology, complementing her certification as a Stepfamily Coach, personal experience, and subsequent healing journey.

As a child of divorce, Judy has first-hand knowledge of dysfunctional family patterns. They followed her into adulthood and 4 “failed relationships”, culminating in a painful but amicable ending to her high-conflict stepfamily experience. Feeling heartbroken, confused, and resentful, Judy set out to be happy and whole again. Through a Personal & Spiritual Journey, Judy managed to heal her complex trauma without traditional therapy. That ignited her passion to help others through similar experiences.

In addition to coaching, Judy speaks, writes, and facilitates in-person workshops. And, she’s a member of the Mind Well Collective.